1) You have a man who makes the plans, takes you on dates, and never forgets a birthday or anniversary.
He provides not only financially, but also protects you, guides you, and takes care of your heart. He stays centered so that when you vulnerably share your feelings or problems (even about him), he gives you reassurance and care. He opens doors, compliments you, and is affectionate with you, just to put a smile on your face. And even when you make mistakes in your behavior or communication, he lovingly shows you another way. Such a dream is one where you are fully safe to let go and open up because you are being fully cherished in all of these ways… and more. But being treated like a lady hasn’t been your consistent experience with a man (or men). Instead, what you’ve experienced is him withdrawing his time and attention, leaving you guessing about why he’s losing interest and attraction. Or maybe he criticizes you and gets defensive when you try courageously communicating your needs and feelings. Perhaps he complains, dumps on you, focuses on himself, and shows little interest in truly seeing the depths of you as a woman. Or he closes his heart to you, doing little to make you happy or to take away your burdens by anticipating your needs. Or just maybe, he does do what you want, but you can sense it’s coming more from obligation rather than true devotion. Even if such a man doesn’t abandon you through a breakup, he’s already abandoning you by not keeping his heart fully open and leading you with strength and love. And that hurts. It’s painful to not have your needs fully met. To not have the safety, ease, and care you need which only comes from a loving man’s leadership.
2) The good news is that there is something you can do to inspire a man out of any and all of his unhealthy behaviors and motivate him to be the best man he can be for you.
Want to know the secret? You must learn how to show up in a way that simultaneously communicates reverence for him as your man and love for yourself as a woman. You must learn the art and science of vulnerably communicating your needs in a feminine way, to let go of all control when engaging with a man. When you are able to do this, you’ll no longer try to control his behavior by leading, blaming, judging, accusing, questioning, resisting, or mothering… Nor will you try to control his perception of you by staying silent or downplaying your needs, problems, and feelings, while tolerating mistreatment. Instead, you will be sharing everything fully, vulnerably, and unapologetically. In a way that feels amazing not just for you, but also for him. You may be anxious believing that letting go means you’ll be hurt or be seen as unworthy by a man... But the opposite is true. This way of communicating will activate a man's masculine instinct so that he will want to take charge and make your life easier…
3) He will be your protector, including protecting you from his own reactivity and bad decisions.
He will pursue you, even in a long-term relationship, and make every day like a never-ending honeymoon. He will see your heart as the most valuable, important, and priceless part of his life, and he will do everything to care for it. This may sound too good to be true, but it’s not. It’s how I now show up with my wife, after I taught her how to communicate this way. It’s also what hundreds of my ‘Relationship Of Your Dreams Academy’ women students are now experiencing in their own love lives. And now, whether you are single or in a relationship, you have an opportunity to learn this for yourself.
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How To Express Your Heart In A Way That Activates His Instinct To Hear You, Protect You, And Take Care Of You
To achieve this goal, we help men get in touch with their masculine instinct by using what I call 'masculine communication'...
...And we help women get in touch with their feminine instinct by using what I call 'feminine communication'. Masculine communication makes it easy for a man to lead a woman out of any disrespectful behavior, and into letting go, opening up, and communicating vulnerably and with reverence. The more a man uses it to lead, the closer her gets to masculine embodiment. Feminine communication makes it easy for a woman to inspire a man out of any inconsiderate behavior, and into taking charge, cherishing her, and communicating with strength and kindness. The more a woman uses it to let go of control, the closer she gets to feminine embodiment. Instinctual polarity gets magical results beyond anything I've ever witnessed in my 16 years in the self help industry.
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